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46, I'm looking for someone 30-45. Be enthusiastic, caring, warm, and intelligent. No offense to anyone out there, but please no BBW's or women with pictures taken from before they had kids. I am a good looking man not to sound boastful but I dress and smell good too. I can dance, help you cook, and sing you a tune. I'm a very well rounded person who is in fact a gentleman. I like to do many different things depending on the season. I love a woman that can look great in the black dress or in a baseball hat and sweats. Well, that's a little about what I'm looking for, do you fit the bill? Bristol

46, I'm  single, sane, normal, own my own home, and am drama free. I'm 180, 5'9", very muscular and attractive. Hazel eyes and former blond. However, as you can see from my description I'm not tall dark and handsome. I live on the north shore in East Lyme. I am a decent, good guy who has quit a lot to offer. I am also dependable, and am down to earth. I to love to laugh and joke around and have a great sense of humor from silly to sophisticated. I also love music, reading, the outdoors, cooking together, gardening, wine, and more. I am very good with my hands but I also have a college education. I'm romantic, thoughtful, kind, warm, sweet, funny and smart. E Lyme

46, 6'2 180 told VERY cute! Professional guy...laid back...VERY positive...HATES negativity! Easy to get to know. Will make you comfortable within 5 minutes guaranteed! Happy to provide a pic and please do the same! Avon

46, white 5-9 180 Attractive, successful, intelligent, nice guy with a good sense of humor seeks same in a classy, intelligent woman. I like to travel, go to shows, the beach, movies, museums, jazz and comedy clubs, work out and play sports. I love strolling along the boardwalk by the ocean, drinking martinis, and relaxing. I like to enjoy life to the fullest! I'm looking for an intelligent, educated, fun loving woman who would like to meet a quality person for a long term relationship. If you like, please send your photo. Iíll look forward to hearing from you. West Hartford

46,  I would like to meet someone who doesn't mind some times staying home and cuddling to a movie or getting all dressed up and going out to dinner or just taking a walk and holding hands. As for me I love learning new things. I like making people laugh and smile. By the way I'm 5'11", with a (slim/athletic build), with brown hair and blue eyes. So did you have a date last night and were you disappointed? I know I was. Everyone always seems to look so great in their photo and then when you meet them they are either overweight, don't look like their photo, or they are playing games with you and do a 180 on ya. It's terrible! I just want to meet a nice single white female that really is single and is looking for a boyfriend. I don't know why this is such a hard concept to grasp. NO, I DON'T WANT TO SEE YOUR PIC AND YOU WILL NOT SEE MINE. No more pic's and no more games. If you are really looking for a boyfriend we can chat on the phone and just meet. Enfield

46, Hi I'm Gaston, I'm a cute 46 year old single white male from New Haven, and I'm looking for that "one special girl" but I won't settle for just any one. Lets get the physical out of the way. Physically I am attracted to someone with an average to athletic build with long hair. I don't mind a little extra padding as long as you are in proportion (bigger chest than stomach). I don't need perfection but I know what I like. Now then if you got past that without thinking then let me tell you more. I am looking for a single white female 33 - 45 who is fun, sweet, cute, caring, romantic and knows how to be a great girlfriend. I want a girl who I can learn new things from and who will let me show her a thing or two. She can talk to me about anything because we are best friends besides lovers. New Haven

46, Hi there, thanks for reading my profile. I am 6' 195 lbs, dark hair, blue eyes, well built and a very attractive looking guy. I am a professional in the technology industry, fun and good natured. I am finding most women in the CT area to be total flakes, is it in the water? I am looking for a woman in her mid-30's to mid 40's who is very smart, very attractive, keeps in shape and has her act together. I prefer classy Caucasian and Latina women. Pic for pic, I promise you won't be disappointed, so please don't disappoint me...thanks. Happy Holidays! Hartford

46.Single,46, less than perfect male. Never married. Love Photography. Just a regular guy... Kinda Intelligent . Good sense of humor. Not looking to waste any more time. There's no excuse for us to be alone !!! Please be between 30-40. Live in CT . Must truly want to start something. Please reply with photo. No games or time wasting w/back and forth e-mails Groton

48, DWM,  In search of a woman between the ages of 35-55 that can handle me.  One that is capable of being available when and where I want.  I am not into idle chatter, commitments, LTR, phone calls or lengthy visits. I come when I want and I leave when I want.  Looking preferably for a recluse type individual that has large breasts and is willing to service my needs. I am not attempting to present myself other than who I truly am. I am cynical, condescending towards woman, and when I decide its over, its over and don't bug me about it.  If you think you can handle this, please write. Otherwise don't waste your time, because I am not willing to change for you or anybody.  Please be within 20 miles of Hartford. I have no intention of traveling any further than that. It only matters what I think.  Sign me as DON'T CARE.  I know there must be some DON'T CARE women out there some place. Hartford

49, Looking for a woman who will be stable in a relationship, who has family values, someone who doesn'tít like to argue, must be able to reach rational and logical decisions without confrontations. My children are grown and would not like to have anymore also would like yours to be out on their own as well. I do have grandchildren and love my children and grandchildren dearly. I do smoke. I live in the same town as my children and am comfortable there, but who knows. Be over your ex- boyfriend or ex- husband. Be able to show and receive affection. Must not need to go out every night or every weekend but not like staying home all the time either. Not real heavy into the bar seen, although I donít mind that every once in a while. Must be down to earth and mature. We can exchange pictures through email contact. Montville 

50, profile: Myself? tall, slender, B/M, atheletic, mentally stable, employed, I'm a fun blend of class & riff raff (so I'm told). You can decide my looks. Not looking for serious committment, seeking a MATURE lady (race unimportant) to casually hang out and have fun with after a hard NIGHTS work - no stress/ no pressure. Photos avail for serious.  New London

50, I am a highly professional, single, 50 years young, Asian and handsome male. Recently I have moved here from Delaware with an excellent job. I am looking for a nice woman for friendship and more. As a professional man, I am a sincere, kind, loving, and person. Please email me if you are interested. Wethersfield

50, I'm a BM, divorced, 5'7", 185 physically fit lbs., with a sense of humor, laid-back and open to meeting someone who thinks outside the box. Physically, I prefer a younger women, between the ages of 35 and 45, who is slim, muscular, average or petite, but that's not a deal-breaker.  Those are the basics. I'm a reasonable man, and one or more of the above traits could qualify. I'm not necessarily looking for an intellectual nor a formally educated person, as education begins and ends outside the classroom. I'm simply trying to connect with a real person, whatever that is. Meriden

50, Don't really know what to say except that if my alter ego were to describe me, hereís what he would say about me: This gentleman is easy going, loves and uses humor in all situations, a good friend, easy to talk to and with, a good listener, enjoys stimulating conversation about a variety of subjects, loves to and is a pretty decent dancer, comfortable in any setting, open-minded to new things, enjoys holding hands while talking-walking, likes cuddling while sharing time together or watching a movie at home, doesn'tít smoke but understanding of those who do, social drinker only, reads or watches old movies to relax.I am 5'7" tall, average build, in excellent health, I walk 2-3 miles every other day. I work in the health care field, I love to read, play tennis in the warm seasons, dancing every Saturday night. Tolland 

50, mature African American male tall, articulate, intelligent, witty and fun loving, who is caring and compassionate who enjoys the simple pleasures of life. Seeking to share hearts with a partner having the same emotions and feelings. A woman who knows how to laugh and smile, A woman who likes to be hugged, kissed and hold hands. A woman who doesn't want to hold back her feelings when treated like she should be. A woman who has the time or can make the time to share with a special someone. If these are feelings you would like to share please feel free to respond and let's start to communicate. please respond only if you have the time or can make the time to invest in a possible LTR. If not thank you for at least taking the time to read this post. Have a great life and I hope you find your heart's desire. Please send a photo. Will send one in return. Bridgeport

50, I have a lot to give the right person. I don't want to be taken for granted. I am honest and caring, passionate and romantic. Have many interests, write me and lets see where it goes. I am only looking for someone who is ready to commit to a long term thing. It will take some time to know each other first. Must NOT be in a relationship. Single only. Hartford

50, I was up a dead end street with someone who doesn't care. i have had all I can take and its over. I loved her very much but tired of being a fool. I had 6 months of it. May be you have been where I was too. Or you are looking for an honest man. Well here I am. I really want an honest and sincere woman, who is not afraid of commitment. Someone who wants to enjoy life instead of making excuses why she doesn't have any time to spend together. Write me back soon. Tired of being lonely and missing all that an intimate relationship is all about. Lets see if life's road can lead us somewhere. OK? Thanks write back soon  Enfield

52, a very outgoing guy. I love going dancing. I love sports. Mostly football. I'm a huge Dallas Cowboys Fan. I love to play softball and shoot pool, I enjoy camping too. There is something about sleeping under the stars. I enjoy just about anything outdoors. I like to travel whenever possible. I also like to go to the gym to swim and workout. I also enjoy just getting cozy on the couch watching a movie or something. I consider myself to be dependable and funloving. I love kids too. I consider myself to have a great sense of humor. I also consider myself to be a very passionate person. I'm looking for a woman with similar traits. Hopefully it can work towards a long lasting relationship or friendship. We never know until we try. Hartford

53 years old Hello, i'm a firefighter. I'm looking to make some new friends. I'm looking for someone that is outgoing, considerate, and kind. Someone who is just as perfectly happy with friends who are unsuccessful as with those who are successful. There is nothing I hate more than a woman who looks down on another person for something as stupid as the clothes their wearing. Thanks for looking East Windsor

53, I am a contractor in home renovations and electrical upgrade and a widower of a beautiful 8 year marriage with my disabled wife who died from her disabilities 3 years ago. At this time I am seeking continued marriage with someone special with the possibility of having a couple of children within the marriage relationship. Please include your e-mail address with your reply. . Hoping to share a wonderful time just a moment away. Canton

53, My name is Bobby and I just moved to CT a short while ago. Im originally from the deep South, a true Southern boy. I'm college educated, professionally employed in management and both mentally and financially secure. But you don't need to be all that just the mentally secure part would be great. I'm into my career and getting ahead in life. I'm a very honest, loving and trustworthy type a guy looking for the same in a woman. I have a zest for life and everything in it. I love to laugh and enjoy life to its fullest. I'm not into head games or a lot of drama, so if you're into that, please lets not waste each others time. I also love children, animals, my friends and family. Old Saybrook

53, I'm looking to meet a girl to do things with. Things like dancing, dinning out, theater, the arts, traveling, cultural events, sporting events or just hanging out next to a warm and romantic fire. I'm open to a long term serious relationship if I found that special girl. Someone who I can love and cherish forever and a day. I just want to take one day at a time and become friends first and whatever happens happens. Im a very romantic, affectionate and passionate type a guy so if you're not into that I guess I'm not the right guy for you. The kind of woman Im looking for should be smart, sweet, slender and cute with a fun outgoing personality. I also love a woman that can be playful and silly when it's appropriate. So if you have any interested please let me know Middletown

53, I have to admit that this feels rather strange, but what the hell. I am a recent transplant to the New Haven area (I moved here for career reasons) and I am at a bit of a loss for local friends and places to go to relax in the evenings and on the weekends. I am a very young 53 year old single white male, who is interested in finding some female friends in the New Haven area. I am 5' 10", 190 lbs. White with a love for jazz, the blues, art museums, cooking, science and the outdoors. Politically pretty liberal, but philosophically I try to be pretty tolerant. West Haven

53, white, 5/11 160 lbs, tan and good-looking. I would love to meet some of the local women (Age and race are not an particularly significant issues as far as I am concerned). My preferences run to women who take care of themselves and are physically fit, but intelligence, curiosity, a sense of humor and wonder are paramount. If you are interested (or just curious), please drop me a line. Your photo gets mine. Pomfret

55, DM, 5 foot 6,  i dont smoke, 200 pounds just divorced, free and ready to party!  You should be 45 plus single or divorced and ready to have fun.  I am also a smoker, but could quit for the right woman. Dinner in a nice restaurant would be a good start. No children please! Joe in Southbury. Email me Southbury

57 year old  male, I am 5 foot 10 inches tall and weight 220 lbs. I am out of shape I admit it, it is because I work a lot and eat a lot of fast-food. I am looking for someone to give me a reason to not work so much and go out with so I eat better, I hope to build a nice LTR but will take it day to day. so here is my post,  lets see what happens. If so then please send me an email and a pic and letís talk. Plainville

59 years old, a cultured man, 6í1íí, 230 lbs, fit, with no dependents. I like nature walks, campfires, travel and reading. Iím looking for a thin 40 to 55 year old SWF who is cultured, flexible and liberal minded (and a good kisser) for dating and friendship or possible LTR. If you are interested contact me. (Do you have a picture to share? If so, please send one and Iíll send you one of mines.) Hope to hear from you! Hartford